babycavlove
New Member
I have the chance to help a year old female buff american cocker spaniel- a lady is trying to find this girl a new home as she was returned to her after her owners split up. She has come from a very abusive home where the man of the house regularly beat his wife and more than likely did beat this dog too...
Shes had her back with her for 3wks now and she said she now trusts her but is obviously scared of new people...im told shes not been aggressive just looks petrified and will totally shy away (i dont blame her the little love!!).
She isnt scared or aggressive with other dogs and hasnt bothered with the ladys cat...my worry is that i have kids. I do have stair gates through the house so can separate untill she is feeling happy with all members of the family but do you think this dog is too big a risk?? Im home all day and am willing to spend a lot of time with this dog, shes not very well house trained either but we have all wooden floors so this is not a problem- i had to train my 8yr old ex-beeding cav as she wasnt house trained so know what to expect and thats fine. What should i do?? Id love to help this girl be happy and to teach her that people are not all bad!! Would she be a huge risk though?? The breeder has said she will always have her back and would even come and pick her up if she doesnt settle here or if we cant cope.
Shes had her back with her for 3wks now and she said she now trusts her but is obviously scared of new people...im told shes not been aggressive just looks petrified and will totally shy away (i dont blame her the little love!!).
She isnt scared or aggressive with other dogs and hasnt bothered with the ladys cat...my worry is that i have kids. I do have stair gates through the house so can separate untill she is feeling happy with all members of the family but do you think this dog is too big a risk?? Im home all day and am willing to spend a lot of time with this dog, shes not very well house trained either but we have all wooden floors so this is not a problem- i had to train my 8yr old ex-beeding cav as she wasnt house trained so know what to expect and thats fine. What should i do?? Id love to help this girl be happy and to teach her that people are not all bad!! Would she be a huge risk though?? The breeder has said she will always have her back and would even come and pick her up if she doesnt settle here or if we cant cope.