The vet said that she may have been the runt, but even by runt standards she's small. She's barely 8in at her withers right now. They suggested I give her puppy food for more nutrients. The vet said that she is the smallest cocker spaniel she had ever seen in her career, runt or not.
Right now the good news is her heart is strong, her eyes are good, and doesn't appear to have any sort of bone problems currently. We were able to give her some of her vaccines and get her on the new heartworm preventative that's the once a month pill that protects against fleas. Apollo is currently on the year long shot, but I was really interested in trying the all-in-one pill with Missy. I can't stand the smell of the flea/tick prevention I put on Apollo monthly. Yuck.
I was so upset at first but the vet assured me that everything is totally fixable. So for the next few weeks she's going to have relax and take all of her daily medicine and have her ears cleaned.
I know I said about she did it out of ignorance and I think it's because in my head I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt at first, when I thought it was just ear infections. I know cocker spaniels can develop them if not properly cared for. I'm glad when I got Apollo I read several books about cockers [even though he's mix] and had my vet show me how to properly clean his ears and with what.
Now that I've had time to process all of this I'm livid. I suspect she has another dog or two because I creeped on her facebook page. I'm going to email her and show her a copy of the vet bill and tell her to get her other dogs to the vet. If she doesn't I talked to my vet about filing a complaint against her with animal cruelty, and the vet agreed to back it up. The problems Missy has don't happen over night.
Thank you so much for all your support and kind words. Right now both of them are in my recliner with me sleeping comfortably, being spoiled rotten. Despite the fact that her vet bills are probably going to build a new wing at my vet's office, I'm so glad I have her, and I myself am blessed to have two perfect cockers [cocker-types in Apollo's case
ray:] that .... augh I don't even know what to say, I'm rambling. Sick or healthy with all their imperfections and bad habits they are both mine.